Children under gay and lesbian parents are doing well.
Surprise! No not really. We've known for quite a while that homosexual parents are capable of being real parents. So how is gay marriage, gay rights, or the existence of gays destroy families? I doesn't. In fact the evidences show that LGBT folks are creating families. Furthermore, if a person gets a divorce just because two guys can marry and have kids, their marriage probably wasn't stable to be begin with. So what does that make Focus on the Family and American Family Association? Certainly nothing to do with actual families. Patriarchy perhaps. Religious Patriarch more exactly. Those religious idiots can keep their "family values" (like child abuse and extreme misogyny) frankly, since those values aren't something a modern society can run on.